There is someone out there so fixated on getting married thinking that marriage will be what finally makes them happy and secure in their relationship, that they are missing the fact they have the most LOVING, CARING partner right in front of their eyes.
Not only does being present improve your quality of LIFE but it prevents you from being extremely HURT when things don’t go to plan.
Feelings of hurt are usually generated by a sense of LOSS, so if a relationship breaks down and we have planned our whole future with this person, it can make us crumble that little bit harder as we haven’t just lost a partner, we have lost our whole FUTURE as well.
So, it's not getting married that will make you happy- it’s the JOURNEY to getting married, knowing that you are GROWING and EXPANDING as a couple whilst being grateful for one another along the way.
If you concentrate on the NOW within your relationship, the QUALITY of your relationship will be much BETTER.